tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27351884.post2566541082127346237..comments2023-09-08T21:17:59.736+05:30Comments on a stupid's random thoughts: marriage market...Venkata Gopala Raohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09894359077555812534noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27351884.post-73101797520652379452007-12-01T14:54:00.000+05:302007-12-01T14:54:00.000+05:30I do agree with Gopal, but don't agree with Aarthi...I do agree with Gopal, but don't agree with Aarthi at all !!Arunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15337642180572109962noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27351884.post-19027424072543303872007-05-15T22:29:00.000+05:302007-05-15T22:29:00.000+05:30These days parents (not all) do give a lil freedom...These days parents (not all) do give a lil freedom to their daughter/son to discuss frankly about their life partner...<BR/>in addition to mistakes done by parents where they convert marriage to be a trade/ business, there are many cases in which the bride's/groom's attitude is not so <BR/>such that<BR/>1. "get on with their lives without any money matters involved during their marriage any other functions after mge" - in case of an arranged mge.<BR/>2. "get on with their lives without displacing the Gods they grew up with" - in case of inter religion mge.<BR/>3. "get on with their lives without any ego" - in case of rich(by money) marrying a poor <BR/><BR/>but one thing for sure: "if there is true love (though abstract)and a bit of courage , then it can overcome these problems" <BR/><BR/>regd generations: its a belief that child grows its thoughts/values/beliefs rooted from its parents... if this generation takes care (very doubtful, bcos all people wont follow), then probably the next generation will be taken care...aarthihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15304105523586590834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27351884.post-36003221228313835692007-05-12T14:00:00.000+05:302007-05-12T14:00:00.000+05:30you are right. the change should start from our si...you are right. the change should start from our side. let's hope the day will come before we die!Venkata Gopala Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09894359077555812534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27351884.post-21028662306263683332007-05-10T15:21:00.000+05:302007-05-10T15:21:00.000+05:30Good one gopal...its so silly that even in this 21...Good one gopal...<BR/>its so silly that even in this 21st century people are still more concerned about caste and dowry.<BR/>software professional has more advantage over this dowry...as increase in pay after appraisal, expection of dowry also doubles.its like pay is directly proportional to dowry expected.But surprisingly even girls parents are ready to afford.<BR/>As u mentioned waiting for those days where application forms dont have the caste and religion columns....<BR/>If the government is not encouraging this we can try the change from our side. lets not mention anything in the caste field. Atleast start this trend from our next generations.charuthihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05890313419645072301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27351884.post-85119444732657326322007-05-10T13:58:00.000+05:302007-05-10T13:58:00.000+05:30This comment has been removed by the author.charuthihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05890313419645072301noreply@blogger.com