Wednesday, September 06, 2006

love meets confusion meets the disaster...

recently, one of my friend's close friend has committed suicide. it was really a sad news. though it is common these days to hear that somebody has committed here or there, i feel it strongly appropriate to write a few lines about the incident.

the story goes like this... this boy is in love with his classmate since long time. the pair always say that they cannot live without each other. they proved that they are made for each other. they got married in the first year of graduation without disclosing it to their parents. girl belongs to some upper caste and boy to a backward. it is now one year after they have finished their graduation and started living with their parents. boy used to tell everything to his mother who used to be his best friend always. the problem started a few months back when the girl's parents started looking for some match for her. she couldn't convey them properly that she cannot live without the boy and that she has got married already. but, somehow, her parents sensed that something is wrong. as usual, in a cinematic fashion, they started black mailing her. her agile mind accepted their order in a confused state and got engaged with the boy(bridegroom) brought by parents. and stopped talking with her loved one. the boy somehow knew the news and approached the girl and tried his level best to convince her. he even talked to the bridegroom. but no use!!! the girl said that she dont know this boy and bridegroom said he wont object if she is willing to go with the boy. imagine the situation of this boy!!! and think of the girl's state of depressed and given up mind!!! few days after that incident, the girl has committed suicide. hearing this, the boy couldn't wait and he followed the girl's path.

the question comes here!! once we die, there is no question of how we are or whom we like or how we wanted to live... but, what happens to others who are so closely related to the died? what is the situation of the parents? how depressing it is for the friends? isn't there any solution for this? why dont people realise that there are so many good things than just love? why parents dont understand their children's feelings? the real beauty of life can be seen only through gaining experience through failures and getting mentally strong everyday... oh god! please give us the courage to face the reality!!!

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

always pure love doesnt meet the confusion , but it definitely meets disaster in 99% case.
only one suggestion:
even if 1 likes the other so much, try to take them as friend, rather than building love reln.
too practical (though heart cant follow it), but the best soln. this is frm an exp of a victim, who is writing here.

gopalwithlove said...
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gopalwithlove said...

dear anonymous... your suggestion is appreciable... but, if everybody starts thinking practical (as you said), there is no question of developing a feeling of love at all... i was wondering about the same issue for quite a long time but couldnt come to a conclusion or an opinion...

pure love or divine love are so abstract words which are found in reality rarely... the mental strength of an individual sometimes goes down depending on the intensity of the problems he/she facing... so, i feel we will never know what is going to happen to us the next moment... after all, life is a big lottery! but, i can tell one thing... we should learn lessons from experiences... but, lessons do come at some cost...

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