Thursday, June 29, 2006

is it easy to forget someone whom you loved most?

is it easy to forget someone whom you loved most? somehow, i feel the answer is relative!!(?)
at the first place, why do we love somebody? beauty? wealth?? lust??!! or something else??? again the answer is quite relative!! to start with the basic fact that man is a social animal, we always need some company of others.. nobody of us can shut all our doors (mentally) and live for long time.. there is a constant need of sharing thoughts, getting feedbacks, pass the time, to get help and give help...
well!! the underlying fact is that we are so dependent!! yeah.. we are!! we need somebody to tell that we are alright.. we need somebody to let our foolish thoughts vent off.. whenever we find somebody who can share our thoughts, or has some qualities similar to our own, or who can offer sometime to listen to our grievances, it is quite natural to develop some sort of inner closeness towards them.. exactly, the process starts here... as the days progress, the closeness grows to such an extent that we just can't stay without sharing our every trivial thing with the other one.. if the other person is of opposite sex, obviously the feeling of closeness will not take much time to get transformed into so called 'love'!!! of course, here, i am not talking about the love that exists between parents and children, or siblings..
once we are in love, there comes another jealous devil into picture.. namely 'possessiveness'. once it enters, we start expecting many things from the relation and that ultimately leads to problems.. slowly, there comes a stage where we no longer enjoy the relationship just because the other person might not meet the expectations!! the other person may start staying away, or even completely out of our life.. but still, we love them wholeheartedly!!!
it is a fact, whether we are ready to accept or not, that it is not at all possible to completely erase the feeling of love towards that particular person.. time may soothen the pain, but cannot completely cure the problem... we will miss them every moment..
someone can break your heart!!
but, you still love them with every broken piece!!!
that's love!!
so, friends!!! do you agree that it is not possible to forget someone whom you loved most??!!!

2 comments:

Murali said...

nuv ala adigite em cheptam??? some times we have to forget...
othr wise we cant live...

some days back.. one girl was thr in my life.. she was every where in my life...
naa prati alo chanalo undedi.. prati nimishm...
but i have to forget her... i have to..
i dont have any option left with me..
still i like her. but she is no more present in my thoughts now.. i m sure abt it..
nw tell me ... did i forget her??
:)
nice post....

gopalwithlove said...

hey murali!! did u observe one thing? you are saying that you have forgotten and still talking about her so emotionally.. exactly, that is what i wanted to express through my post.. i hope you got my point..